What I discovered during the past few years is that successful people do not share tips and advice freely and easily. On the other hand, unsuccessful people give their advice and life tips fast, easily and eagerly. Sometimes even without you asking! They just keep shoving advice after advice even though you are aware that their lives are falling apart or that they are absolutely not in the right place to tell you what to do with your life, relationships or career.
• It is clear that they are not marriage guru because their wives are divorcing them.
• It is also obvious that they are no success guru because they have been working at the same job, position and place for the past 10, 15, 20 years. But there they are, telling you that only idiots and obnoxious people wants to have a promotion, increase their salary, or dress nicely.
• Those relatives of yours who constantly question your career choice and life choices. But in reality, they have no freaking idea what a business analyst or a programmer does. Yet, there they are, shoving you their best practise advice at every family gathering.
You know, empty barrels make the most noise.
If you were anything like me, when I first started working, I was gullible. I accepted advises from everyone. I was scared of making any decisions for myself and I was afraid to fail. Therefore, I blindly followed this “golden advises”.
Do not repeat my mistakes! Be smart. Be smart enough to distinguish if the person you are receiving advice from has knowledge on that matter or is he just parroting advices from the society and their ancestors. You would not want to go to the market to get financial and investment advice from the butcher don’t you?
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